The days are upon us already, these times require a certain level of financial accountability or better still, living on a budget. Many persons are constantly seeking knowledge from various sources on how to multiply their resources, yet many more are trapped in a limbo with bills and not getting the needed headway they desire. Yet different people consistently and on a daily conduct in-depth research on finance and wealth creation bordering on the desire to participate in the fun side of life despite of their limited financial resources. It’s therefore only appropriate that one’s partner understand and know your true financial disposition.
This is a generation that many don’t want to put in the work yet a lot would love to be taken care of, just living the dream every day. As desirable as it is, it would be absurd and selfish by all standards to place anyone under undue pressure to pay for your taste of the good just because you two are together. Many even cajole their significant others in the name of love, sipping champagne on their partner’s slim funds, and it’s only a matter of time before the bubble burst.
Why are relationships fast turning into money-related ventures?
Empathy is at an all-time surface level; relationships are fast becoming money-spinning ventures that pay the bills of certain parties in exchange for showing or reciprocating love.
Since we all need something, this age has lost sight of the true meaning of relationships. However, this should not naturally turn love; which should be a beautiful thing, into a deadly menace of greedy tactics and maneuvers. Sadly, the flavor of genuine love is disappearing from the world.
As much as we fancy a luxurious and fun-filled relationship with access to the finer things in life it’s pertinent to respect our partner’s capacity or budget and try to build a bridge by meeting them halfway. If your partner is well-to-do and able to meet your need, you shouldn’t leverage your love in proportion to what you receive or anticipate receiving.
So feel free to love like a baby, love unconditionally.
Love Shadows