Many times, we can’t help but appreciate some of the wondrous beauties of the human species asides our partner, that our Dear Lord took His time to create, perhaps it serves as a subtle reminder that we are all well created.
Appreciating the good things in life, however, shouldn’t warrant us putting our lover’s heart in harm’s way so it gets crushed especially through silly comparison or vague attitude and disrespect.
4 things a person in a committed relationship should know about physical attractiveness:
- Firstly, you must realize that when it comes to outward appearances, there will always be someone or persons who are far more attractive than your spouse or the person you currently dating.
- Sometimes, you may feel like you made the wrong decision or were in a hurry in choosing a partner.
- If you are not physically attracted to or passionate about your lover, the tendency to cheat on them is relatively high.
- Fourthly, as in all healthy relationships, your partner’s physical features are essential, but they are far lower on the priority list of things holding down relationships than you may ordinarily have imagined.
Perhaps you have considered cheating because of your partner’s physical characteristics, or you may have observed some person’s love interest in you who you believe is better looking than your partner, or better still, up to your lustful standards, and you feel like flirting or taking a chance on cheating. Here are a few pointers to help you avoid such intentions.
How to avoid being a flirt or cheat in a committed relationship:
- By embracing the tranquility and requited love that comes with choosing to appreciate and have eyes only for your partner as your one true love.
- Recognizing that the grass isn’t always greener on the other side, that physical attraction is merely a temporary fix, and that a meaningful relationship demands more.
- By acknowledging the place of passion in a relationship and being willing to communicate in a loving way your fears and concerns to your partner in order to find solutions as a team.
- By respecting and valuing your partner enough to recognize the importance of the partnership in their lives.
- By agreeing in love to work with and around what you both have been given.
It’s important to remember that no one is self-created, so no matter what physical characteristics you have, that bothers you or your partner, such as the size or shape of your genitalia, clitoris, height, or perhaps the shape of your breasts, know that you are created to be loved and cherished just the way you are. That being said, It is perfectly acceptable to dislike your characteristics or those of your partner, especially in terms of physical attributes, but one should take solace in the fact that we are all different and unique and If you have a partner that is willing to weather this storm with you, then you are extremely fortunate!
6 reasons why you should avoid cheating in a committed relationship:
- Staying committed to your partner and looking beyond outward appearances ensures an undoubtedly endless capacity for excellence because your energy source and inner chakra will not be compromised.
- Avoiding infidelity and valuing your partner above physical attraction allows for more lasting love and long-term progress in your relationship.
- Your mental tranquility will be protected without paranoia.
- One’s spiritual and sexual health would be free of potential diseases and unexplainable ailments.
- Trust is unbroken, and your partner’s admiration and respect for you would be unmatched.
- Refusing to give in to strange bedfellows would ensure your passion is intact and there is much loving to give, as your sexual health and love interest in your partner is likely to be off the charts, since they are the only one to milk it.
Finally, we are aware that love is without a doutbt provided some sort of reassuring boost by physical attributes or attraction. However, if you are depressed because you no longer find your partner attractive based on physical characteristics, and you can’t help but be irritated that you are even showing disgust or making foul remarks towards your partner at the slightest opportunity, you should let that partner go rather than hurting them more by staying. Without an apology, you do not deserve their love and affection!