Statements like “one can do whatever they want, with nothing to lose” are pretty much a very steep mindset; this way of thinking has made a lot of people very cruel and insensitive in their relationships, and it is frequently blamed for the traumatizing events meted out to partners who have put forth a lot of effort and sacrifice to maintain the relationship.
If you believe you have nothing to lose in a relationship, it means you have no value for the essence of time. Being in a relationship for a few days, a few months, or a few years and not considering it some sort of investment, absolutely carpets such a statement.
Funny enough, people with such improbable ideas have a tendency to give up on relationships quickly.
How to handle your relationship with empathy:
- First off, if you need to be stern, do it with compassion for your partner and the foundation of your nascent connection as a pair.
- Remember that damaging your relationship with your words and attitude won’t make it last.
- If you really care about the breakdown of your relationship, you must value having someone to lean on, the time invested, and the power of relations.
- And most importantly, don’t continue to be in a relationship that torments you out of fear of losing someone or what your partnership stands for, that’s a prescription for catastrophe, and in the worst circumstances, death.
Peace of mind is incredibly valuable and should be prioritized above all else in all relationships. Therefore, if maintaining your connection will cost you your peace of mind, in all respects, it is advisable to take your leave cause it might take your life and that’s too expensive a price to pay.
Always bear in mind that “whatever a man sows, that he shall reap…
If we are not ready to be with someone, never mislead them into getting into a relationship with us. It would be wrong to make a partner invest so much in us then suddenly disappear.