A lot of people would respond, “I can’t stand to harm him/her, or better yet, I don’t want to be perceived as being wicked or insensitive, but what options do we have?
Before getting confused, and start wondering what this is all about in the first place, be encouraged to have a firm stance and a brave heart from this day onwards as we dive into this topical issue!
What does it mean to be wicked in this context?
We are well aware that currently, we live in a world of domesticated wildlife, and this is no offense to the animal-loving communities, but can one imagine a scenario where wild venomous snakes of all sorts are seen daily at home, what do you think would happen?
A much clearer instance, kindly imagine a snake coiling up on your bed, likely from the cold; it had rained severely the previous night and everything was genuinely cold. Would you cover the snake with your blanket to keep it warm or would you panic and possibly try to kill it?
Let’s throw out the analogy! the big question is: what good is it to put up with an abusive dating relationship just because we don’t want our spouse or the rest of the world to see us as heartless or insensitive?
The truth is, we would always be the villain in someone else’s story, so why don’t we take the initiative in this one by choosing the path of wickedness and saving our lives.
People would never comprehend one’s course of action or choices, and when they do, it might be too late for us to explain that this is what we have been trying to communicate to everyone without exposing what we had been going through the entire time.
Why is leaving certain relationships or situations difficult?
- It’s sad and unfathomable that many people who are no longer interested in their relationship do not want to end things with their partners all because they don’t want to be seen as cold-hearted and insensitive by their partner or people who may have known about the relationship. Although a few might still be able to make it work, however, often many are likely to leave the relationship worse off than it is now, causing pain and hurt that was simply delayed.
Why we shouldn’t mislead people who want us:
We, humans, care to be loved. Ordinarily, we crave affection and attention, so when someone expresses romantic interest in us, we are knowingly not interested in having anything emotionally binding to do with that person and armed with the belief we can never reciprocate their devotion. It’s only right to be heartless enough to tell that person not to waste their time on fantasy, even though it might seem insensitive at the time, however, this straightforward truth might end up sparing you both future heartaches and issues.
Additionally, in order to quell any potential animosity that may result from this ostensibly wicked position, it would be wise to offer a more relaxed alternative like sincere friendship when one is in such dilemma.
- Gifts typically come without conditions because it is the primary reason they are referred to as gifts. However, if we have decent standards, we shouldn’t accept lavish gifts from someone we know has love for us but we don’t intend to return the favor because doing so only encourages them to intensify those feelings.
- Tragically, fulfilling this duty by this person is dependent on a foundation of false hope since the person believes they are investing in their future by doing this for someone they genuinely care about and love. Why don’t you, as a rational person, state your position clearly from the beginning and make sure that the person who is showered with gifts and affection is aware that the only tangible outcome of their actions is sincere friendship. It would save both parties a lot of time and frustration.
Many times, what we have termed” wickedness,” is a blessing for anyone and everyone it may concern.
Stay wicked. . .